Sometimes people will still say to me, “Oh, you’re the fantasy job guy”, referencing my work creating career mentorship programs with VocationVacations. Luckily, the number of people who see me as Ricardo Montalban of careers are declining. Instead, people see the results of what career mentorship can accomplish: A successful transition to an ATTAINABLE dream career. Fantasies via Ricardo Montalblan’s Mr. Roarke are fantasies — they never truly come to fruition. Dreams, however, do. I work only with dreams.
Examples of unrealistic “fantasy jobs” for most of us are NFL quarterback, brain surgeon or rock star. Examples of realistic “dream jobs” are bakery owner, stand-up comedian and fashion retailer.
All that being said, I often hear people say that they have a career in mind to pursue but they’re too scared to pursue it. They see it as fantasy versus an attainable dream. One that stands out in my mind is being a sailor, working on a cruise ship or owning and/or operating a vessel touring company. There is a whole sector of folks who dream about sailing day-in and day-out but feel it’s simply too “fantasy”-based. They’re wrong.
Whether you want to captain an ecological touring boat, be a schooner captain or sail the seven seas on a much larger commercial or leisure vessel, you CAN make your dream your reality.
VocationVacations mentor, Cindy Adams, of the Reef Roamer and QuickSilver fleet in Key Largo, FL and I were recently chatting about it. She hears it all the time from people, “Oh, Cindy, you’re so LUCKY to be in this position.” As Cindy will tell you, luck has almost nothing to do with it. She and her husband, Terry, sought out a new career, leaving their corporate cubicles behind. They were not millionaires. They did not already own any land-based or boats in the Caribbean. Instead, it took planning. It took a business plan. It takes a lot of hard work. In the end, they have a wonderfully successful and lucrative business. They have realized their dream and have created a fantastic work/life balance for themselves.
Only days after speaking with Cindy, I was in Hood River, Oregon which is situated right in the Columbia River Gorge along the Columbia River. Gorgeous spot. The Wadester and I are there all the time. We dream (and will make it happen!) of someday “bouncing” between living in Hood River with views of Mt. Hood and the Columbia, keeping the condo in Portland and having a small place in New York. Some day! Well, as I was admiring the most amazing rainbow across the river, I then spotted a “tall ship” docked. I had to check it out. What was a tall ship doing in Hood River??? It was the LADY WASHINGTON, (owned and operated by Grays Harbor Historical Seaport in Grays Harbor, WA) a replica of the ship from the 1750’s that sailed around Cape Horn in South America and explored the west coast of North America. Amazing.
And then I met someone as amazing as the ship: John Paul Clark. John Paul recently left his career as a carpenter to literally sail up and down the North American Pacific coast on the LADY WASHINGTON! I have to say that he is quite proud of himself. He chose the path. He went through months of training and is now living and working his dream on the water. He is not only part of the sailing team but is also responsible for providing the replica ship’s history to people like me.
When I asked John Paul if he indeed found his dream job sailing up and down the west coast, he simply grinned from ear to ear and said, “Oh, yes, most indeed.” He also added that his daughter is proud of his endeavor of changing careers a bit later in life. John Paul is proof that it is NEVER too late to work in what you truly love.
Now if sailing isn’t your thing, something else is. Culinary? Working with animals? Entertainment? Sports? Fashion? Whatever it is, do not assume that your dream is unattainable. It is not fantasy (unless you’re 45 and want to become that NFL quarterback). It IS attainable if you work through a career transition program and you are diligent about your own progress. I know. I have seen thousands of folks work through the process since 2004.
Make your career dreams a reality. You can do it. Let the winds catch your sails!
Cheers,
Brian Kurth
President of mentorship-based career consultancy, Brian Kurth + Company, and VocationVacations, providing 1-3 day career mentorship experiences to adults.
November 16, 2009 at 10:31 pm
Brian,
great post. People do control their own lives and having someone to help and guide them along the way can make all the difference. I hope you’re making many people’s dreams reality.
Of course, if I ever decide to become a lion tamer, I trust you’ll talk me out of it (http://bit.ly/nZiEI)
Sorry if you’ve received that clip a hundred-million times, but I laugh myself silly just thinking about it.
All my best,
Andy
November 19, 2009 at 11:50 am
Brian, love the post and love the whole idea behind VVs. I vacationed with your company a few years ago at Lynn Reardon’s horse rescue ranch, LOPE, in Austin. It was an amazing experience. I’ve struggled so much with figuring out what I wanted to do in life, and being afraid to do it, that I finally decided to start a blog: http://serialreinvention.com. It’s dedicated to the idea that reinvention doesn’t have to be one huge decision. It’s a journey, and you can try many things along the way. I plan to do a post on Lynn and your company in the near future as a great way to test drive your different dreams!
November 19, 2009 at 9:07 pm
Rebecca, love your blog and its/your mission. Reinvention — one step at a time. Love it. And totally agree.
Great to hear from you! And I’m now signed up for your blog updates….
Best,
Brian
November 20, 2009 at 2:08 pm
Brian,
Very interesting post. Indeed, I noticed that most of the time, people are considering work as a constraint and not as a positive thing. In that way, they don’t move to realize dreams. It is a fact that if you like what you are doing, then you will convince the other, because you will be convinced also.
I started my career as freelancer 2 years ago, and discover hide talents or new things I like to do. I am in a coaching process in order to concretize some dreams ! Just to be concentrate on your goal.
Best regards,
Eric
December 3, 2009 at 3:10 pm
Hi Brian,
Thanks for the kind words about the blog post. I caught the Today show segment this morning, it was terrific. Got me wondering…have you pitched Vocation Vacations as a TV show yet? Follow your clients on location as they test drive their dream jobs – I would watch for sure!
Cheers! R.
December 5, 2009 at 3:52 pm
I get phone calls from production houses all the time but most want to turn it into something salacious. I won’t do that.
BUT, there is some “chatter” around a potential TV show based on career mentorship, transition and reinvention. Oprah hasn’t called quite yet. Ha. Some day, it WILL happen.
Thanks,
Brian
December 9, 2009 at 4:58 am
Blogs are so informative where we get lots of information on any topic. Nice job keep it up!!
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